u/Beholdthepath

Stuck and not sure what to do/how to date

This is allot for me to talk about and it might just end up being a vent but I don’t have anyone I can really talk about it with so maybe someone here can help me or at least talk to me about it. I’m 23m first I will admit I don’t think I look the best but I don’t think I look super bad just kindof average I guess and I can be pretty goofy/weird sometimes. But I haven’t really dated much I had one girlfriend I dated from middle school until the start of junior year around but then she had broke up with me and I moved states away. For the rest of high school I was on the laptop from home then only left the house to really go to work from then till today I never really get out allot and even when i do I’m not sure how to approach someone a girl being even slightly pretty makes me nervous/shy and not sure what to say and even on dating apps I don’t seem to get barley any matches and I’m not sure really how to talk to a girl and get a conversation started beyond just the hey and how are you? Even when I do get the occasional match. I’m just really lost on what to do and it all just feels isolating. If anyone has any tips or if anyone can talk to me about it It would greatly appreciated.

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u/Beholdthepath — 4 days ago