Guys we (me and my husband)and my brother in law live together for 3 years(we live in non muslim country)his wife is from that country
2 days ago my brother in law was eating a bread which contain pig emulsifier i and my husband told his wife many times to not buy it as she buy her own grocery but she would still buy such things(we had problems before so i told her not to talk to eachother and avoid eachother)i thought her husbnd didn’t know so i ask him very politely“do u eat this bread too it has pig in it that’s haram“his answer shocked me his tone was like he wants to argue or fight he says“yes its ok u can’t stop eat these things in this country everyone here eat haram“so i answer him not us we live together so u have to be careful “ he says no problem u guys r gonna shift somewhere else u have problem “
they eat haram beef burgers and bring it home everytime so i told him plz not to bring it home his answer shocked me even more that it’s not haram it’s maqrooh u muslim only see haram halal and pardah in Islam(as i do pardah so he was trying to bother me with that)but i answer him that with Quran verse about haram meat and pig and said u can not deny it,it’s clearly mention and to that he answer me what ever u want to do ibadah, tilwat or any good deed do it ,don’t teach me which make me kinda sad my eyes were full of tears i said i was trying to just tell u if u don’t know about these haram stuff u have at home but u r trying to fight and argue i m just worried about ur akhirah as u r like my brother
During this whole conversation my husbnd was sitting there trying to tell me keep quite
He just tell his brother that u guys bring haram beef burgers home so she( me)has problem with that ( I was shock why can’t he stop his brother why can’t he tell his brother that he is wrong )
I went to my room crying .my husbnd came and said to me that u r wrong don’t make urself God (nauzubillah) which make me feel even more sad
After that my husbnd is just ignoring me not talking to me wel its not first time whenever we have such problems at home he would just say try to adjust which I do but he would still stop talking to me for week and laught with his brother and his wife. Am I really wrong? I start questioning myself did I really do something bad?