I'm (23M) and never had a relationship before.
At the start of 2026, I told myself this would finally be the year I get a girlfriend. Maybe that sounds like a dumb goal, but I’m just tired of always being single and feeling like I’m missing out on that part of life.
The frustrating part is that I’ve actually been trying. I’ve used dating apps, tried to meet people in person, and even managed to set up a few dates. But every time, they end up getting cancelled last minute with excuses that don’t really make sense. It’s hard not to take that personally after a while.
I’ve also been working on myself a lot. I go to the gym, eat healthier, improved my look, style, and try to balance my studies, work, and personal goals. I feel like I’m doingwhat i possibly can , but I’m still seeing zero results.
At this point, it just feels discouraging. It makes me wonder if I’m just not desirable or if there’s something I’m missing. Seeing no progress despite effort really sucks.
What kind of advices would u recommend me? Anything I need to do better? Or should I just give up?