u/BeginningMiddle7390

🔥 Hot ▲ 63 r/AvoidantBreakUps

You want to keep a severe dismissive avoidant in a marriage? For some misguided reason, or whatever else? Treat them like their parents treated them

- Don't ask them about themselves

- Don't care about their emotions

- Talk only about yourself

- Treat them like an accessory and an instrument

- Don't treat them like a fully human being

- Don't ever chase them, instead ignore them when they deactivate or shutdown

- Make sure to keep hugs to below 2 seconds

- Better no hugs at all

- Delegate tasks to them in the house

- Allow them to be your servant

- Don't share meals, eat alone

- Go find someone to have an affair with and make it obvious

- They have an issue with you? Deflect it

- Get defensive

- Tell them to stop bothering you

- Look at them with disgust when they share feelings

- Spend a long time doing your own thing (and maybe emotionally cheat on them meanwhile)

- Keep talking about someone else with adoration to their face

- Don't make eye contact longer than half a second

- Keep your body and feet turned slightly away from them

...

Basically, massively neglect and objectify them, while unintuitive, this is how to keep them

For an FA, create constant toxicity, chaos and abuse. Verbal abuse masquerading as teasing with gaslighting will be especially effective! Learn to neg 24/7 and mix praise with insult. The "spark" they lost will return 100-fold, trust! And make sure to promise to protect them but never really do and DARVO them when they call that out

Forgot: stonewall them when they voice any discontent with you!!!

Still want them?

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