So my boyfriend (M24) and I (F23) have been together for almost 3 years. We are both bisexual and are (at least right now) monogamous. Since the beginning of our relationship I have told him that I don’t see myself being monogamous forever and that I can see myself being in some type of poly/open relationship once we have been together for a while and have establish a stable foundation of trust. He never really expressed his opinion on that topic but also hasn’t said that he is against it. For some clarification my bf said that he is demisexual in the beginning of our relationship but i am not sure if it still applies today because he had a complicated relationship to sex but that has completely changed throughout our relationship.
My bf has been hanging out with some more of his Uni friends lately and there is one friend (let’s call him L) that he talks about a lot. I have meet most of his Uni friends but I haven’t met L yet. I have suspected that my bf might have a crush on L for a while due to the way he talks about him. A few days ago my bf told me that they both made out while drunk and that they both don’t really remember that. He asked me if I was fine with that and I told him that I don’t mind (he has kissed quite a lot of his male friends before but mostly in a joking way but they just kissed and didn’t make out). Then he talked about some other unrelated things that happened that night but then kept going on about how attractive L is. I don’t know L’s sexual orientation.
I will be meeting L and a few other of his friends in a few weeks and my bf emphasized on how excited L is to meet me. Now my question: am I reading too much into this? How should I handle the situation?