Would you move on to IVF?
Hey gang, I’m all in my feelings tonight and want some advice. My husband and I are about to turn 35 and have been TTC since 12/2024. I get pregnant on the first try every time, but I’ve now had 3 pregnancy losses. First was at 15 weeks due to an infection, likely from a cervical polyp that I’ve now had treated. The second and third were MMCs from a chromosomal abnormality- trisomy 16 and maternal triploidy respectively. I’ve been seeing an RE since March and have had every test under the sun- clotting disorders, SIS, HSG, karyotyping. Waiting for my endometrial biopsy to come back to test for endometritis. My AMH is 3.3. My husband’s semen analysis was very normal. I’ve been on lovenox and progesterone with my last 2 losses. Since my last loss in March I’ve been on a ton of supplements including coq10, NAD, melatonin, magnesium, and a high quality prenatal (was taking most of those before my last loss too).
I’m feeling so stressed about my next move. If I move forward with IVF, I likely won’t be able to do a retrieval until August because my clinic is booking up. I just feel like the timeline is so long. I just want to have a baby so badly and all this waiting is excruciating. It also feels so annoying to be actively avoiding pregnancy when it’s all I want. Would you try again or move to IVF?