u/BedExtension7731

Anyone ever been in my shoes? Been together since we were 17. Have had our highs and lows. We have a small child together. Im just not sure if shes MY person anymore. She refuses to do anything I’m interested in. I receive constant pushback on ANY decision i try to make. She wont keep up on taking care of herself. Constantly trying to keep unnecessary tabs on me. I cant even walk back into the house for 5 minutes without her calling me “wya wya wya” Refuses to cook and hardly cleans. Spends hours on games and then gets upset when i try to hang out with my friends. I have tried talking about some of these issues in the past and nothing changes. If it isn’t her way it’s the highway. Sometimes we do get along and it’s great when we do, but it is so mentally draining dealing with the bad. Leaving may seem to be the answer but it’s always so much harder when kids are involved. As someone who didn’t have a 2 parent household all you ever want to do is provide that for them, but at what cost? I AM scared to leave, but not because of I’m scared of her, I’m just afraid of the mental stress it may put my child through. This woman is the mother of my child and i do love her in that aspect, but as a wife/partner? Im not so sure anymore.Any insight would be great.