u/Beautiful_Cook_1954

my bf downloaded bumble and idk what to do

My boyfriend of 1.5 years went on a trip with his family, he suffers from depression of some sort (im not sure, as he has never actually told me his diagnosis, but he does goes to therapy). He was down before the trip, and while he was away (it was a week) he barely texted or call, which I understand as he was in another country and sharing a room with his father. He got home on Sunday, and when I went to see him I asked to see the pictures he took there. As he was showing me he passed very fast over a pic of what I thought was a bumble profile. When I asked him about it he was very apologetic and told me he only used it to distract himself, swore he didn’t talk to anyone on there or anything. I asked to see the app and he said he had deleted it -whilst saying he was sorry and had no excuse other than being sad-.

I told him to re download it and he did, I went through the app and found nothing, like no chats or matches, but it did was his profile-it had a picture and everything.

I think what I´m trying to ask is, is this cheating? I know its wrong but, how wrong really?

Also, do the chats disappear on bumble when you delete the app, but not the account?

This is the first time that he does anything remotely close to this so, please help.

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u/Beautiful_Cook_1954 — 22 hours ago