Hi I’m 16 year old female and I’m from a good home. I have two younger sisters but I have a middle one ( female 13) who I used to get along with but I don’t really anymore. It’s hard because we live in the same house but we barely see each other because she’s always out at sports or seeing friends or in her room on her iPad. I don’t sports too and I’m pretty busy in school so we don’t talk a lot. Recently just kind of at the start of ninth grade I was in a really academically focused school and I started cutting off the first time in my life. My parents freaked out but the middle sister was the one who saw it and our relationship has been kind of weird after that. We have some good moments but a lot of the time we fight and we have big issues with her taking my things. I recently went on a trip with my mom to go see my grandma and she took an eyeshadow palette and used it without my permission and when I asked her about it she went into a long rant about how I took her things which was over a month ago and kept bringing it up even though I pointed out that she was being a hypocrite but she refuses to acknowledge that she did that. She said I “do nothing” and a lot of harsh words were exchanged. I just feel really out of touch with her because we used to be really close but I might not even see her next year because I might go to boarding school. I only have two years left of school and living with my family but I don’t know what to do because she can’t ever admit she’s wrong and it’s just hard to live with her. Does anyone have any thoughts?
TL; DR My family is also going through a tiny bit of money troubles because my dad has tried to do startups about three times and is having work complications and my mom has not had a job since Covid which is defiantly different that what we had before. It’s making everyone more stressed and angry and not helping the situation.