He Chose Another Girl While I Was Finding Out the Gender of Our Baby
Storytime (from a friend F23 & bf M31)
What would you do if a guy you were supposedly serious with, a guy you skipped every other man for, ended up choosing another girl over you?
And not just over you… but over the gender reveal of your baby.
A moment that was so special to you that you wanted to do it privately with him instead of even with your own mother.
The worst part is that he wasn’t just texting her that day.
He was literally WITH her at the exact same time as my gender scan appointment.
Every single time I look at the ultrasound picture on my fridge, I see the exact date and exact timestamp printed on it and get reminded that while I was finding out the gender of our baby, he was with another girl instead of beside me.
He knew exactly where I was.
He knew exactly what appointment I had.
He knew exactly what time it was.
And he still chose her.
Later on, it turned out she was completely playing him the entire time. She was never even 1% serious. She took screenshots of their conversations and sent them to her boyfriend, while the two of them laughed together and discussed what she should reply next.
Even after meeting up with her, he immediately texted her about how “amazing” everything was. She and her boyfriend laughed again and decided to mess with him one more time, this time sending everything into group chats while they were doing the same thing to two other guys as well.
For her, it was all a joke.
But for him, it was completely real.
Real enough for him to invite her on vacation, even to his mother’s place, which somehow made it hurt even more. He wanted to take her to parties, kept chasing her, constantly messaging her, while at the same time telling me how “ugly” he supposedly found her.
Even when he told me he blocked her, the first thing he did was message her on another app instead.
And the worst part is that this wasn’t even the first time.
At the beginning of our relationship, he was already dating another girl for 6+ months behind my back. And to make it even worse, she had the exact same name as me.
So now every time he says my name, I get reminded of another girl too.
Everything from her side was fake, but everything from his side was real. And because of that, our relationship slowly died.
Every feeling I had for him disappeared. And every single time I think maybe a tiny bit of love is coming back, he finds another way to ruin it again.
I can’t even throw the gender scan away because it’s the very first gender scan of my first baby, which should’ve been one of the happiest memories of my life.
But instead of happiness, it now only brings me sadness and anger.
Break up forever or leave his actions in the past?