u/Beana-01

I’m feeling bad about wanting to spend time with my partner

So me and my partner have moved in together from being in a 3/4 year long distance relationship. They were polly when we met and have another partner they live near now we live near. Is I wasn’t Polly going into this but I am now and just haven’t found someone else yet. So before I was only able to see him a hand full of times a year. I didn’t realise how often they got to see eachother like dates and spending time together at houses ( I want to be clear I don’t want them to stop or anything!!) but rn I see them after work when they get home or log off and they want alone time wich is fair I don’t really mind and at the weekend they sleep till mid day and then go in their room to game we haven’t been out much together or anything. We r both ppl that like our own space whats bothering me rn is they call a couple times a week wich again don’t bother me but they said when I lived hours away that they didn’t like to call because it made them sad so we rarely did. And I’m just starting to feel insecure wich I know is dumb cuz they love me and I love him it just saddens me to see all the things he does with them but don’t with me I guess. Sorry this was more of a rant to get my feelings out but if anyone has advice I’d love to read it.

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u/Beana-01 — 5 days ago