u/BeanOfficially

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Looking for new ways to meet a potential girlfriend

My past dates were either grad students who left town (one I met on tinder, and the other I met through dancing), girls I met overseas (visited Philippines and Indonesia), or girls who didn't meet my standards (bad habits she couldn't quit, obnoxious personality, and one of them cheated). One almost worked, but after dating for a couple months she decided she wasn't ready for a relationship yet because she didn't have a job and she wanted to be able to pay bills.

When I walk around campus, I see couples everywhere. Where are these guys meeting their girlfriends, or are my standards too high? My brother met his at work three years ago, and now they are married. Another friend knew his since highschool, and now she's pregnant and they're living together.

I feel like I'm missing something. I miss having someone to hug

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u/BeanOfficially — 7 hours ago