u/BeachMom2007

I know this gets posted a million times in here and everyone is sick of seeing it, but I’m another one that needs help.

Started talking to this guy about a week ago, matched on Tinder. We went out on ONE date. Y’all, he has gotten SO attached SO FAST!! Calling me sweetheart, love, etc… talking about deleting his app. I’m just not into him, unfortunately. Marvel fandom is the only commonality we have.

He’s asking for date two. Part of me wants to say yes and end things in person but part of me thinks I should say no and end things in text. I know it’s going to be brutal for him either way, but I’m at a loss.

Editing to add: I sent the text ending things! Thank you everyone for reinforcing it’s the right thing to do. I haven’t dated for a relationship in over 20 years. The past 6 have been casual sex only. Plus, I ghost when conversations get hard. So doing this the right way is new.

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u/BeachMom2007 — 7 days ago