Aitj for standing up for my friend for his wedding day
For some context my friend has been planning his wedding for 3 months for this weekend is getting married at our church. Sadly one of the elderly women at the church passed away last week and now they've planned the funeral directly after the his wedding ceremony. the problem is several people already committed to coming to the reception go to the church and could be planning to not go to the reception and simply stay at the church after the weddong to attend the funeral. The church didn't ask if it was ok to do so they just told him that's what they were doing. I think it was inconsiderate for the church to do that to him considering he's spending several thousands of dollars for food and could end up overspending since he already sent rsvps out a while ago. I understand they family of the elderly women was probably put in a tight situation and could only do that date but I think that it was inconsiderate of them to schedule it and not ask. I was talking to my family about it and they just kept "fence sitting" and not wanting to pick a side. Saying I'm being controlling, gaslighting me and saying that "I shouldn't care that much" and "It's not your wedding". When my wife and I have been planning this wedding with him since day one.
TLDR; A funeral got scheduled on the same day as my friends wedding and people might miss the reception because of the funeral. I said it was inconsiderate of the church to not consider the amout of time and money went into the reception and my family said I was overreacting.