u/BatZaphod

Vou levar minha namorada pra conhecer São Paulo. E já fui muitas vezes, mas em épocas de vacas mais gordas.

Vamos chegar sexta de tarde e ir embora segunda de manhã bem cedo.

Gostaria de sugestões de passeios turísticos low cost. Ibira ja esta now planos embora eu ache meio sem graça.

O que mais sugerem e que esteja perto de alguma linha de metrô?

BÔNUS QUESTION : Como chegar no aeroporto de Guarulhos às 5:30 da manhã vindo da região dos Jardins? Só Uber salva nesse horário?

Ass;turista pobre

Last January I med this woman on Tinder. I'm a 55yo divorced fathar living (then) with my youngest daughter of 18yo.

Well, I med this beautiful 42yo woman and we instantly hooked up. We felt so well and so connected that we started sleeping together almost every night.

But the thing is my daughter never really liked anyone after I divorced her mom and with this one it was not different. A dry "hi" would be all that I could get and I would not try to insist.

To make a long story shorter, I found that Beth(*) had a health issue. She is from a humble background and could not afford healthcare: 2 jobs to be able to pay rent and provide to her 18yo autistic son.

However I noticed that her breath was very short to the point even changing clothes would leave her exhausted. So I decided to book a doctor on my dime and he ran a few examinations and found out she had an issue on her cardiac valve causing her heart failure. As a result she could no longer work two jobs and stay up to 36 hours awake just for a living.

I was so in love and so concerned - since she would not be able to pay her rent - that I aked to move in.

It's also important to say that she has CPSTD: She had a very rough childhood, she lived on the streets on a very young age so she would not be beaten by her abusive mother. I when I say beating, it's not a leather belt or a flip flop, it was with a broom stick to the point of passing out. Aside from that she married young to run away from violence at home just to find violence from her husband who left her as soon as she was found to be pregnant and never paid a penny as allimony.

The thing is, I never asked permission to my daughter, I just, said, "I was not expecting to leave together with Beth so soon but this is a difficult situation and I have no choice. She has no family or anyone in this world".

And that is true, her family is so problematic all live apart because they were very traumatized by their mother's abuse (all kinds of).

My daughter was not happy. She said "How can you bring these two strangers to MY home? Where will my privacy go? And who is this strange man you are bringing? I will not feel safe".

It is important to say that I tried to make her get to know the boy and his mom but she refused all times.

Until one day she came to me and just told me she was leaving and she would not accept what I was doing and would be moving to her mom's.

I was so shocked I couldnt articulate an answer or a request for her to stay - and in fact two days latter she came here with her mom and took all her belongings.

And she didnt speak to me again - just some harsh emails (cause she blocked me on everything else) she said I am no longer her father, that I didn't prioritize her, I did not respect her feelings.

And from my side I think she kinda blackmailed me - because she left and the only way to make her stay would be to throw Beth and her son out.

So, I feel like I lost my daughter, she no longer talks to me, she even called me names the last time we spoke.

I tried to do a good thing but I failed as a father.