u/BasuraCulo

So I'm dating this guy who is Haitian and I've noticed that many/the majority of Haitians like thicker women. We follow each other on social media and he made a post about this super slim woman who was talking about "Men not wanting to be with a super slim jawn", then he made a story saying "No, we wouldnt want y'all because we're scared that we're going to break y'all".

And it makes me feel kinda weird because I'm slim myself....so it's like ....if Haitian men like thick women so much why would he want to be with someone who is not his ideal (thick)?

Edit: I am not slim thick by any means, I'm just.....slim lol. He says that I'm skinny, but....my weight has always been an insecurity of mine specifically because I'm a black woman but don't have the stereotypical "black woman body". I'm 5'7" 128lbs for context.

I know this question has been asked before but I have ADHD so all of the information that I've seen confused me so bad so I want an actual place to where I can personally reference at and not get overwhelmed by different information.

I live in an area where ServiceNow seems heavily utilized but not many people know about it. I love servicenow, used it in 2019 at my IT job and fell in love with the application and couldn't stop thinking about it since (I'm serious). The other ones like Zendesk and for godsakes Oracle Siebel CANNOT compare. At another job, since I was the only person who knew servicenow and it was new to the company, I trained a team of 20+ (including management) on how to use the ticketing system. At my current job, I pitched for them to use Servicenow instead of Oracle Siebel and they said "Haha no cause of costs", what ever I tried. I depict these examples to show how much I actually love servicenow because I know what it can do.

So I want to work in the ServiceNow field. Doesn't necessarily need to be with the actual company but definitely the product. What steps do I need to take to get to my goal of being qualified in the eyes of an employer that I know my stuff?