u/BasketofFruits164

Hi.

TLDR - skip to 3rd paragraph if this is too long for u to read

For a little context, I started talking to this guy back in Dec 25, we ended things on a mutual note early Feb 26 (though it was him that ended things mostly). But there was one thing that led up to it, I caught him liking a girls post (she was in gym clothes on barely clothed) and I confronted him about it, he barely apologized but he unliked the post - I took a day to think of things and gave each other space, but he wanted to end things because he thought we weren’t the right match.

For more context, my friend introduced us to each other, she’s met him (they met through her bfs friend in a different country) but i’ve never, we’ve called quite often & we were texting everyday. We were a great match i’d say.. we got along very well and there was no awkwardness between us, i’d just say we were basically pretty balanced in terms of education, finance & overall living standards, they were all very similar which made me think, this could kind of be it, and i’m settled with him though we’d just have to figure out the whole long-distance arrangement. But again, we’re both still very young, both of us 21 - he’s still doing his undergrad degree & i’ve just finished my undergrad & i’m starting my masters soon. He’s doing his degree Australia & I’ll be doing my masters in the UK. Other than that, we’re both from two very different countries, him the middle east & me in south east asia.

Anyways, since then we haven’t spoken, i’ve kept him on my socials because there is no bad blood between us really, we ended on a good note. Though, it would be great if I could try again with him, cause I feel as if things were ‘unfinished’ between us? He likes all my instagram stories whether it’s a picture or me or something unrelated. It’s been 3 months now since we stopped talking, but recently (a few days ago), he blocked me on snapchat.. wasn’t sure what his intention was behind it but we spoke about snapchat before & he said snapchat is quite an intimate app for him - he only has family members on it (yes this might sound silly but he’s shown me and it’s true hahaha). I don’t know if he’s actively talking to someone else but after he blocked me i checked his IG (completely my fault) and I saw he does follow a girl - she only had two followers, one was him but again that’s just an assumption, I don’t know if he actually is or it could already be over (?). Moving on, two days ago he replied to my Instagram story of me watching a movie, he said he watched it as well & it was great.

So guys, what do you think of this? Should I reply to his reply to my story? Do you think he had any intentions when replying to my story considering we haven’t spoken for months?

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u/BasketofFruits164 — 13 days ago