u/Basic-Speech4276

I am a 29M with no experience with women for obvious reasons. I'm not here to complain about it why because I've accepted the reason why which is I objectively have zero appeal and even quite repulsive to women.

It's hard to explain but I sometimes feel like it's unfair. I feel there is an assymetry in how men and women have vastly different standards for being accepted and loved in society. I know it's not socially acceptable to hold these thoughts and it generates me intense shame and self hate whenever I catch myself in these thoughts.

Does anyone have the same issue and how do you deal with it?