Boyfriend finding it difficult to finish ‘37F’ ‘39M’
I’m a ‘37F’ and boyfriend is ‘39M’.
We have only been going out for 2 months.
Have been intimate for a month.
He has only been able to finish once via penetration.
All other times he will finish with giving himself a handjob or watching me masturbate. It takes him a really long time. And there have been times he hasn’t been able to finish at all!
I’m used to have guys finish via penetration with me with or without me having an orgasm. I find it attractive and feel more attractive.
It’s hard not to think I’m the problem. He definitely wants to have sex with me and initiates and seems to enjoy it.
I’d like to talk to him about it so I’m not so much in my head when I am having sex with him. See if there is more to it. I really like him and I do enjoy the sex but I feel weird being the only one orgasming at times and him trying for ages and sometimes just not being able to finish. He did mention once that when he does finish with a hand job he needs a particular grip and no one has been able to do it for him and that it wasn’t me.
How would guys suggest I bring this topic up with? Don’t want him to feel less than.