u/BarracudaKey9236

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This is a burner account since she follows my main.

I (25m) have been with my fiancee (25f) for about 3 years now. It was a great relationship foe the first year and then it got really rough but we worked through it and are doing well.

About 5 months ago we moved across the country for my work. Its been rough for her to find a steady job and it cause alot of fights about our financial situation and i was ready to throw in the towel. Since then its worked itself out and i though everything was fine, we were talking about marriage, kids, the whole 9 yards. I was so excited for that life. But recently ive been looking at her different, i used to look at her like she hung the moon and now theres alot of things that are just straight up getting on my nerves, shes been down mentally and extremely negative and its been exhausting, and when i think about my future its less kids and marriage and more living life without responsibilities.

Im not sure how to go about it, she packed up her entire life and left the only place she knows to move 1800 miles across the country for me. We have pets together. Im so lost on if this is just a rough patch for me or if i genuinely fell out of love for her. I dont want to hurt her. I do have love for her and want to still give her the world, i just dont know if this is stress or coming out of the puppy love stage.

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u/BarracudaKey9236 — 6 days ago