i am 17yo and i got pregnant
Problem/Goal: im 17yo, my bf is 18yo and im pregnant
Context: we found out im pregnant nung first month na i didnt get my period because bumili na agad sya ng pt, at first we were planning not to keep it but nahalata ng mom ko yung changes sa body ko and thats how they found out. we just graduated senior high and both sides (especially his) are expecting my bf na to work for us which is gusto rin naman ng bf ko to provide for us. however, we live in the province and balak nya sa manila magwork hindi ko masyadong gusto yung ganon na set-up kasi i was expecting na throughout my whole pregnancy he will be right here with me.
both sides namin are willing to provide for the wellness na rin of the baby and i recently talked with my friend, they said na isn’t it better if both of us ay magtapos muna ng college since meron naman pa lang grandparents to support and my bf could still take up a part-time naman muna. i liked the idea but idk how to convince my bf kasi he’s really fixed sa idea na ayaw nya magpabigat at gusto nya sya mag-sustento samin nung baby. but if considering the future, it will be easier naman if both of us are college grads, right?
i am overthinking now what option would be better for us