A mutual friend of mine is going around hunting down my accounts both new and old and Im being told Im overreacting. Am I?
So as the title said a mutual friend who I met through my friends minecraft server who is now going through the internet looking for my accounts including some that I don't even use anymore. For context in the group there's a handful of us who are mostly only online friends, with about only 4 of us (including me) being from the same town and knowing each other irl. This does NOT include the person Im talking about.
The main problem lies in the fact that shes done this now a handful of times that Im aware of despite the fact each time I had already said no to giving her the account but also after Ive told her I do NOT want her just randomly going around and following my accounts.
So far she has found, my dead twitter account, a twitter account I made back in 2012, my pinterest accounts (there's 3 and shes found ALL of them), my instagram, and my tiktok. She also has my town name, because another mutual friend told her which only creeps me out more as shes made comments about ways to get ips before through links and recently started sending links in our private chats over just downloading and sharing it to me.
I'm not even telling her about these accounts, she herself is going into these spaces looking me up, going through my friends followings and just going around looking up stuff Im into to see if she can find me.
I've tried calling her out but each time she tells me 'I'm sorry, I was just bored.' and everyone else tells me Im over reaching because shes just a kid. Shes 17 turning 18 btw.
But I feel like this is getting to the point of being creepy or even stalking, since I was told last night that she actually watches for when I come online. Not that she just sits there and checks every now and then, no she has my profile up waiting while she does other stuff. I always though it was coincidence.
I've tried talking about this with one of our friends, but all Ive been told is its just weird shes doing that, its not creepy and Im over reacting. That everyone in the group knows which town Im from because three other people in the group are from there. I feel this is different though because they dont have someone watching their every move online.
I don't know what to do, Im worried I am over thinking this but at the same time Im not okay with whats happening.