okay so i met this guy through reddit itself, and we got close pretty well. he has a lot of family trouble and he is suicidal too.
ive comforted him in all ways possible and it worked.
he didn't commit or anything like that at all.
we both feel deeply abt each other and are madly in love alright but.
a couple of days ago he sends me a ss.
it was a conversation between him and his reddit frnd (female) where he told her abt me and then she was acting betrayed or smtng like that, like yk she was saying stuff like oh and basically she was acting sad.
then she said that you flirt w 40+ people or something like that and i was like huh at that point.
he asked me if he should block her cause that was like crazy generalization to him and i said whatever you like..but honestly I felt odd ...then later i said could u block her cause i didn't feel the right vibes. And he said right away and said that he blocked her but
yesterday night i came across a meme on reddit and saw him and her talking in the comments, a bit close tbh?
like the topics were...like him having a good impression over her or something and that girl lowk is too cheesy around him which ive noticed. So yeah he didn't block her.
now. Ive been cheated on in the past, that too my exes used to tell me not to worry abt those girls and at the end yk what happened so i have ptsd from that, i confronted this to him and he said that she's an old frnd from reddit and that he told her abt his family stuff so naturally he is comfortable around her..
Though he has asked me to not worry, i still can't somehow
i do trust him but it's just..odd.
anyways today i checked his comments on reddit and saw him approaching girls and complimenting and shi which honestly i am not a fan of.
i personally have never flirted w anyone other than my exes and this guy.
like we made blends on Spotify and uh ig he asks to do that w everyone cause i saw him asking a girl if she has short hair and then he got excited when she showed him a reference and asked if he could blend w her on Spotify..this was like a couple of days before we started talking hm.
i could be overthinking but honestly ts hurts.
he has a lot of female frnds maybe..and id never know ig idk.
this just doesn't feel right.
cause personally, it just doesn't sit right with me.