u/BadAtCoding123

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(Previously posted about an option I had in my closet but looks like it will not work.)

I'm looking for a dress or jumpsuit, ideally a jumpsuit, that will match one of these bags; I really need to carry a big bag and these are my options. I have a couple of blue dresses I picked up at Nordstrom Rack and a dress I ordered online that I'll post when everything has arrived, but I'm also looking for something that matches the purple bag that I can order online and which will arrive in the next week and a half (so not Azazie). I haven't had any luck looking so far--everything I've found is too casual, too formal, or just plain bad quality.

I like purple bag better, it looks dressier, it's roomier, and it's more comfortable to wear for long periods of time if necessary, plus it zips better for public transit.

The wedding is a church wedding at 3pm in the northeast US in late May, with a cocktail hour and reception at 6pm. Dress code: semi-formal/cocktail, "we want you to feel comfortable"

Budget is under $60-75, ideally, but I can go up to $150 if it's something that's good quality, with good sewing and material. I have a purple pashmina I can use to cover up cleavage and shoulders for the church part.

Tl;dr: looking for an outfit that goes well with the purple bag and will arrive quickly for a semi-formal/cocktail wedding, no luck so far

Edit: I looked at Nordstrom, Nordstrom Rack, Lulus, and in-person at a couple of stores. The only options that kinda work are this and this, but they're both brands which I know look super unflattering on me, and the second one is too casual imo.

Edit 2: a more detailed explanation of why I need a big bag: https://www.reddit.com/r/Weddingattireapproval/comments/1st8eig/are_these_bags_too_bigcasual/ but tl;dr: using public transit and it's a bit of a hike each way, + big gap between the ceremony and reception. No comments/arguments about the bag please!

u/BadAtCoding123 — 7 days ago
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I'm looking for a gym which has regular cardio and weight training equipment (rowing machine, kettlebells, barbells, dumbbells, and a pool). Ideally also mat pilates and yoga classes. Wondering if anyone has any suggestions.

The catch is where I am now has access to all of the above it's just super crowded, so for it to make sense financially I'd have to pay less than $500 a year (i.e. $40/month). I know it's super unlikely I'll find what I want, but checking just in case.

Would also need to be accessible by Metro, ideally somewhere in the Grove/Gables area.

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u/BadAtCoding123 — 11 days ago
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Hope this is okay to post here, if not I'll delete! I'm going to a wedding about three weeks from now, and I stupidly booked my ticket with Spirit. Now I can't find a ticket that isn't ~$100 more and I can't really afford to spend that extra money. Would it be a horrible breach of etiquette to cancel this close to the time?

Relevant info: I'm one of the groom's old coworkers, we're friends but not super close (I was in the second round of wedding invites). I would offer to pay for the cost of the plate if I cancel.

Edit: the wedding is in the Northeast in the US.

edit 2: the RSVP deadline was a while ago and they've sent the numbers over to the caterer if that changes things

edit 3: found a flight at an airport the next city over (40 mins away by train) so crisis averted, thank you all!

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u/BadAtCoding123 — 12 days ago

Hope this is okay to post here, if not I'll delete! I'm going to a wedding about three weeks from now, and I stupidly booked my ticket with Spirit. Now I can't find a ticket that isn't ~$100 more and I can't really afford to spend that extra money. Would it be a horrible breach of etiquette to cancel this close to the time?

Relevant info: I'm one of the groom's old coworkers, we're friends but not super close (I was in the second round of wedding invites). I would offer to pay for the cost of the plate if I cancel.

Edit: the wedding is in the Northeast in the US.

edit 2: I've already RSVP'd yes and they sent the headcount over to the caterer which is why I'm worried

edit 3: found a flight at an airport the next city over (40 mins away by train) so crisis averted, thank you all!

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u/BadAtCoding123 — 12 days ago