How do I know if medicine/being a doctor is the right path?
What are some signs that becoming a doctor is the right path for you, and what are some signs that it probably isn’t? Also, for people who are already attending physicians/in residency, was it worth it for you personally? Why or why not? If you could go back, would you choose to be a doctor again?
I’m trying to figure this out before fully committing. My ENTIRE family—especially my dad—thinks medicine is a terrible path. He sees the 10–15 years of training as a huge waste of time and money and can’t understand why anyone would willingly spend their 20s studying nonstop, taking exams, fighting for every grade/GPA point, and delaying their life when there are easier careers with better pay and work-life balance.
One of my relatives is also a doctor and is extremely anti-medicine because of how much they hate the profession (they hate being a doctor and medicine, with every ounce of their body). They basically regret the path entirely and actively discourages anyone from doing it.
I’m fine with putting in hours for clinical experience, volunteering, research, shadowing, etc. What worries me more is the academic side of the path: years and years of studying, constant testing, GPA pressure, board exams, and the competitiveness of the process. I don't mind putting in the hours to get clinical experience, research, etc., but the years of study do seem very brutal (especially for someone like me who hates the whole idea of grades, tests, and GPA fighting/nitpicking).