u/BackgroundSpot1307

when it comes to Christian dating nobody's perfect but we try our best, I know everyone has their own nuanced perspectives but for the most part I feel like we pretty much can all agree on what is appropriate and not appropriate before marriage

but I'm worried that even after I get married I'm going to feel some residual Christian guilt when it comes to intimacy (feeling bad about having sex) has anyone else had this fear or felt this way or is this something anyone else has ever dealt with?

(30.5M)

I think we all know it when we see it. how do we make sense of it? what should be the appropriate response as Christians when we see it or hear about it ?

lately it's been a Hot topic in my friend group and I've been hearing a lot of stories about how it's ruined families,destroyed friendships and is all around not good

please do not think that I'm just targeting Hispanic men because these sorts of attitudes are seen in every culture but are common in Hispanic culture and oftentimes learned from an early age and we ALL have our moments of weakness

I'm hoping this post could be used as a way to talk about the nuances of things and help us men hold each other accountable

thank you 🇺🇸🇲🇽🇨🇦🇵🇭🇧🇷