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So I’ve been talking to this new girl for about a month. I thought everything was going well till she randomly said she wasn’t feeling it. I keep replying everything in head trying to figure out what went wrong. We met a few times irl went on walks, dates etc. It’s like as soon as I started to feel comfortable around her everything went down to be honest this kinda hurts as this was my talking stage in a few years😭 How do I get her out of my mind a move on

I was talking to this girl for about 5 months. I ended things because it felt like we were moving too fast toward marriage. Nothing was wrong with her at all Allahummabarik, she was a 10/10 across the board. Personality, looks, humor, career… everything.

Honestly, I was surprised she even approached me at first. I lowkey thought I was getting trolled 😭.

What’s messing with me now is how much I miss the little things. The walks at the park, FaceTime calls on weekend nights, texting throughout the day while we were both at work. Waking up to her good morning text was easily the best part of my day.

After we ended things, we both tried seeing other people. For me, it just didn’t hit the same. I couldn’t find that spark again, so I stopped and just focused on my deen and my health.

Lately she’s been on my mind a lot, and I’m not sure what to do with that. Part of me wants to reach out and see if there’s still something there. Another part of me feels like I should just leave it alone since I was the one who ended things. So I guess my question is should I reach out again and try to reconnect, or just leave it and move on?