u/Background-Way9698

Hi

Im 32M she's 28F. We have been going out for 1 year - my longest ever relationship, we have travelled multiple countries.

She doesn't want to move in yet because her family is conservative, i would like to because i want live with my partner and this is something i want to do before marriage.

Lately we have been arguing a lot, she is always annoyed at me for my timings, not texting much, i mean she is right in some sense but i have never been in a long relationship and trying to improve.

She's very kind, caring and i love her, but i dont feel..in love..if that makes sense..

I would like to break up but i feel really bad, maybe i don't her to be alone or be alone myself, i think about things logically but its very hard to do here, i cant use math to understand if its the right decision

I asked myself today if i can imagine myself growing old with her - and it was a struggle, is that bad?

I just need an outside opinion, does it sound like its over?

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u/Background-Way9698 — 11 days ago