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Has anyone here ever taken back a friend who ghosted them?

  1. Were you able to fully forgive them?

  2. How long did they ghost you for?

  3. How is your friendship different?

My friend ghosted me five months ago while I been pregnant. I asked her why and since discovering Jesus she said she can’t handle other people’s energy. This is after 4 months of silence every time I tried to reach out just to check in on her. Usually once a month nothing crazy. We used to talk every day at the most, or once a week at the least.

I been there for her through rough times. she can’t handle my hard times well and usually does disappear for a bit but never longer than a few weeks. No one is perfect. We used to be the biggest cheerleaders for each other and I miss her.

I just don’t think I can ever forgive her for ghosting me and not giving me a reason until months later. I understand needing space but she is literally 35 years old. How the heck is her communication still that bad? i gave her so many openings to say what she needed to and she would just respond with “love you, I will call you tonight” and then never did.

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u/Background-Image2282 — 3 days ago