I am 22f and I have never been able to have an orgasm at all in any context. I'll feel myself get "close" (?) but I've never been able to actually get over the hill. Not with partners, and not by myself.
The only thing is, I have a difficult time going to the gym for core day because leg raises get me close, along with a few other core exercises with similar motions.
I believe that my pelvic floor may be overly tight. If I don't have sex or masturbate for more than a week I get a killer stomach ache. In highschool, I lost a ton of weight from it. Masterbation literally made it so I could stomach food again. I had gotten to around 110 (5"4). Kegals are painful!!
I'm not sure what to do. I need advice. I have tried vibrators but they go between feeling nice and just intense and unpleasant.
Do I just have to find a way to have sex and also do hanging leg raises?
Edit to add
I have a boyfriend. I didn't know that this was a thing for people. I am not into in anyone DMing me to try to start something