Is it time to leave?
I’ve noticed a lot of you suggesting that being married to an alcoholic is impossible. I’ve been married for a little over two years. I’m 39 and she is 33. She has had a long-standing alcohol problem, and has been to rehab twice. Last time she got out she got a dui a couple months later. She’s been in and out of the hospital for alcohol issues, and JUST did 30 days of rehab. She got out the day before yesterday, and I let her come back home. It was a very hard decision, as I am absolutely fed up of this life. I told her that I had a solid boundary- no alcohol in the house and no drinking, or she leaves. Yesterday, DAY 1 out of her 30 day rehab…that’s right, her first day home after BARELY being allowed back in the home….i come home and she’s been drinking. I kicked her out. She’s currently in a hotel. I’ve got separation papers drawn up. Is it time? Is there hope? I’m highly doubting it.