u/BabyGirlABDL1994

Hi. 31F dating a 41M who is quite vanilla. I’ve in the past few years had a sexual awakening. I’ve explored different kinks. And due to some health issues wound up finding myself quite engaged in an abdl dynamic.

My boyfriend is pretty open. He’s told me about fantasies he has. Pretty mild, mainly involving anal. And a threesome. Which I’m not opposed to.

I’ve gently eased into it by stating I have a daddy kink. And I really like the ddlg dynamic. But there’s so much more to it and I’m terrified I’m going to scare him away. I feel the safest with this man than any other partner I’ve ever had. I don’t want to ruin it bc of a fetish.

What would you do? How can I go about talking about this?