Hi, like the title says I can't have orgasms, me 27F I've had sex multiple times with a lot of different people, all types of sizes etc... And I'm beginning to feel really desperate, I used to think it would happen when it happens, but now I'm getting really frustrated. I have multiple sex toys, vibrators, I don't understand if I just use them wrong or what the problem is. I also have a boyfriend and our sex is mind blowing, best sex I've ever had and I can tell it really frustrates him the fact that I can't have an orgasm, sometimes he tries really hard and it still doesn't happen, I want to be able to do it for him and myself. It usually feels like I reach the peak sometimes but not the release, idk if I'm able to explain myself...
I even thought I was ace for the longest time because I would try to masturbate and I would get so bored I never did it, after I lost my virginity its better but I still get bored by myself, I thought it would change with vibrators and dildos but it doesn't help at all... I need some advice, idk if there're tutorials or something about how to use sex toys. I also used to watch a lot of porn when I was like 12, I think that kinda fried my brain, but I don't watch almost any since I'm an adult pretty much.