Me and my boyfriend have been long distance dating for two months. I feel like I’m being so naggy. He gets a text Everytime we say good night for the night. And said it was his best friend but now she’s out of the picture and he got one at the same time as always. Right after I say that I’m going to bed and we are both laid down for the night. I know I’ve probably got some trust issues I could work on. I’m not excusing myself or looking for an excuse. Honestly I need someone to be brutally honest. I have only had one boyfriend in my life and it was an abusive relationship. So maybe I’m just not trusting because of that. Idk. His long good morning texts stopped, I almost have to plan and schedule for fun time. One the weekends we only have one full day together and he plans that with his friends. Which I get having friends because everyone needs them, and not just your partner. But I just feel like there’s no time with my partner and the time I do have is either wasted or ruined by my thoughts. I feel like I’m just overthinking the situation but apart of me doesn’t like it at all. But maybe I’m just insecure 😅 can someone keep it real with me. Like how would you feel or what would you do? I don’t like just giving up on my partner I want to do anything I can to better myself or make anything work
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