u/BTC_Werewolf

Married over 30 years. Grew apart... especially in the bedroom. Met someone online. We talked for many weeks ... decided to meet. Sparks flew!!! We talk everyday. She is my soulmate (the affair).

But since then my wife and I have started to repair our marriage ... better communication...and also increased intimacy.

But I can't leave the affair. I love them both ...but my connection with the affair is absolutely insane!