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I am 26 years old and she is 24

Without ALL of the details here is how everything went down In chronological order

1. everything was fine for the first 6-8 months
2. she started getting weird, I said “hey your behaviour is bothering me a little” this went on for 2 months. She broke up with me.
3. she told me a week later she was pregnant with my child & we reconciled , I asked if she wanted to fix things (solely because I want to make sure the child had a good father, one parent not with BPD I realized I had messed up at this point)
4. things go back to “normal” but I saw her maybe 5-6 times in the span of the next 5/6 months
5. we have the baby shower, she’s weird a week leading up to it with me. After it she tells
   Me “she’s unhappy” and I asked with me or in general. Her response was “honestly both”
   I didn’t speak with her for a week then she broke up with me
6. I later had a conversation addressing a dna test and she told me to “make sure I get a court ordered one”
7. I hired a lawyer immediately and proceeded to do the buy the book things
   8)she sent a letter claiming I am harassing and bullying her for proceeding with a lawyer to get this legally resolved (to my lawyer) I then called the police (non emergency line) and provided the texts, me at baby shower, her letter, my (pre dated) court application showing parallel parenting , app communication only, public exchanges
   9)I finally got the dna test after my lawyer claimed costs against her if she didn’t go once her mother found out. She immediately went and had it done.
8. results came back last night, I’m not the father.

I am almost 5k deep in lawyer fees for something that could have been as simple as a conversation and a $600 dna test.

Do NOT date someone with BPD. I now am going to see a therapist after this, this has seriously messed me up.

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