u/Ayute-Slander

I need advice for me [19F] and my boyfriend [19M]

Little backstory. Me and my boyfriend have known eachother for about 10 years now but we have only been dating for just under a year. Before we started dating and we're just hanging out I was going over to his house a bunch. Then my mom kicked me out and I mentioned it to him and he offered me a place to stay. So I lived with him and we ended up getting together not long after that. Then we moved to my other parents house after getting tired of his mom and now a little over 3 months ago we got our own place. Me and him and a roommate [his best friend]

When we first moved in to this house we had small issues of him ignoring me and always being with said roommate. And I pushed it off bc I knew it was nice to have our own place and to be living with his best friend and it would calm down. Well it never really did. But he did start giving me more attention as well so I had no issue​. Well I just got a job for the first time since we have been together. And it was because 1. I needed one. And 2. All the weight was on my boyfriends back to pay the bills and he was getting upset that i wasn't contributing money-wise. Well honestly since I started working hes been more distant. Especially these past few days. He hardly texts me when I'm at work. Distant in person not wanting affection or to talk really and I tried asking him to talk to me and asked why he was being so distant and not talking and he said that he knows everything about me and there's nothing to talk about. [It would be the same for his friend but they're talking all day everyday] and i asked if he was getting bored of me and he just said I wouldn't say that. I want to make him less bored of me. I don't want to lose him i love him so much.

EDIT: I forgot to add that the past 2 days he hasn't been answering really any of my texts while I'm at work. he reads them but ignores. and then when I'm home amd he's at work he responds

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u/Ayute-Slander — 4 days ago