Quick story about myself, I got engaged in an Ayahuasca ceremony (not recommended), have been hosting around 30 retreats a year for various years and have seen a lot of different experiences throughout.
How has your experience been drinking with a partner?
I am happy to share my observations which is also captured in a YouTube Video
Should you do it together or separate and what you can expect:
- Relationship dynamics can be brought to the surface (avoidant, overprotecting, jealousy, codependencies, over giving, resentment etc.)
- You can understand the seeds of the conflicts you carry in your relationship (and also the beauty in the relationship)
- Supporting each other (mostly before and after the ceremonies)
- Open communication without filters
Questions to ask yourself:
- Will I be able to focus on my process in the ceremony?
Caution:
- Misinterpreting your ayahuasca vision
It can show you your desires, fears, hopes - not everything you see on Ayahuasca is a prophecy (Getting married / separated / having kids etc.)
- Do not convince your partner to do Ayahuasca
- you might discover that it’s better to go separate ways. Not easy, but ultimately better to know it sooner than later…
The goal:
- Two individuals healing (seperatly and together)
Build a solid foundation
So you can create something beautiful together…
I am curious, did I miss something, what has your experience been like?