u/Awkward_Shelter1878

Image 1 — Mismolt death?
Image 2 — Mismolt death?
Image 3 — Mismolt death?

Mismolt death?

Hey all, I’m here with a concerned question. This is my first mantis, Winky, and it was on Saturday that he began his first molt since having him. Left him alone, but Sunday morning this was at the bottom of his enclosure. I didn’t immediately jump to assuming that he had fallen from his mesh at the top and died, considering I didnt 100% know what their exoskeleton looks like if he did molt successfully. After noticing this at the bottom of his enclosure, I began looking around the entire enclosure top to bottom without disrupting anything inside of it- absolutely no sign of him other than what’s in this picture. Even today, I’ve looked all around his enclosure with a very close eye, and don’t see anything. I have read that after a molt they may hide. Im really just not sure what the case is here.

I wanted to get the opinions of others in this sub based on these pictures if this looks like an exoskeleton of a nymph, or if Winky has died. The size of his body in these pictures is a good 3-4x smaller than the size of his body before his molting commencing on Saturday evening. Saturday he was the biggest he’d been, that this doesn’t even look like the same mantis. I might just be holding out false hope that he’s somewhere hidden in the enclosure and will show himself by tomorrow. Wanted to see what you guys thought.

u/Awkward_Shelter1878 — 3 days ago

Looking for book recs that feel like longing for somebody who hasn’t actually left, preferably mlm.

Maybe one character struggles in many ways that the other doesn’t- insecurities, grief, family trauma/chaos, avoidant tendencies, addiction, etc. Whereas the other sees the divinity in them, is more secure in life, wants to protect and hold tight the other, is incredibly fond of the other, wants to hold the one who won’t speak up and ask to be held, is strong, gentle, affirming, affirmed.

Best friends, karmic brotherhood, turned into mild romantic undertones- the avoidant disappears leaving the secure one feeling rattled for the first time. The avoidant insecure one being oblivious to how much security they actually offer. The secure one while respecting the space of their best buddy, trying to find him in every small nook and cranny he can muster. Thinking of him daily, wondering of his return, praying he is okay with the silence and distance between them. Chasing after just the memories that they share, longing to hold each other even one more time.

(I have read call me by your name. I’m interested in something that is less fateful/forbidden romance and more best friends who love each other maybe more than they’re supposed to. Little words spoken of feelings but with oceans inside)

u/Awkward_Shelter1878 — 8 days ago

Curious why you moved to Kingwood

As someone who has lived here all my life, I’d be curious to know what about Kingwood attracted you to move here! I think because of living here my whole life, I might not be aware of an outsiders point of view of Kingwood prior to moving here. I’d be pleased to learn what the opinions are of Kingwood from people who have chosen to move here or are considering moving here/why you think it’s the place for you!

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u/Awkward_Shelter1878 — 10 days ago

It’s been an exceptionally stormy and rainy day today, hasn’t let up since this morning. Got home from work today and made some brisket mac and opened a voodoo ranger. My best buddy lives a few states away, and I haven’t heard from him in months as he’s gone through the grief of his sister passing unexpectedly, and I haven’t been able to quit missing him these past few days. Wish I could give him a hug and let him know I’m here for him

u/Awkward_Shelter1878 — 13 days ago