I (f23) have been questioning my sexuality for a while now, but haven’t explored anything yet (probably like a 1.5 on the Kinsey scale). Given recent news relating to SA and male violence, it feels like exploring the possibility of dating women might be safer. The problem is that I’m demisexual, and have no real way of confirming my physical attraction to women without getting into a relationship first. How do I approach this without accidentally possibly leading someone on if it turns out I’m wrong?
I have tried looking at fictional stories, since that can simulate the emotional connection without involving real people. The problem is that I don’t really know where to look to find lesbian stuff that isn’t geared towards men. I think I would probably be into more butch women (or somewhat androgynous? or NB ppl?),but I really have no idea what I’m doing anymore. Any advice would be appreciated.