My stbx wants to live in same house and not divorce because she scared of the debt we have together. She wants to use my money to pay for her lifestyle and not be my wife. I’m not sure I can do that. Thoughts good and bad
Been married for almost 20 years 5 kids and the whole nine yards. I’ve betrayed her a couple of times over the years cuz I’m an idiot and she reached her limit and Litterly hates. I deserve every bit of it. It is 100% my fault and I take responsibility. I started therapy. I’m the sahd so I do all the kids stuff and house stuff so that’s not an issue. She doesn’t know why this time I will change and I said I’ll show you and she said she can’t give in this time. She needs to work on healing and being a better mother. I convinced her to stay In same house for kids. 19,18,17,10,8. I just am sick to my stomach for being such an idiot for all those years. Please help I have lived longer with her than without. I do t care if it’s negative or not this is everything to me.