u/Awkward-Phone4920

i f16 was emotionally and mentally abused by my boyfriend for almost a year and a half, and it’s really fucked me over. he’s still harassing me but that’s another tangent.

i can’t stop ruminating on the thought i was actually the abuser and ive got the situation all mixed up.

does anyone else feel like this sometimes? what helps? both with recovering and yk, moving on?