u/Awkward-One9929

My wife treats sex as a chore and I can tell she dreads it. I feel like she does it just enough to keep me in line. (I get it about every 10days). It’s the same way or no way. Starts with a back rub for 30min, rolls over lets me do my thing, won’t kiss or anything. She zones out and tells me to hurry up. Any other guys out there feel dead inside from their wife showing zero desire in their marriage? I’ve tried talking about it but she refuses to talk about sex and just says this is who I am. I’ve asked her to talk to someone about it, talk to the doc to see if her hormones are out of wack.. Won’t do a thing. I’m starting to feel dead inside. What would you do in my situation?