u/Away_Power2495

My partner (26) and I (24F) have been together for 4 years and they are super close with their family. (Which is fine I’m not mad abt that) but lately it feels like they dont put the same energy towards me that they put towards them. Like for example I have to beg them to take me out on a date sometimes but if their sisters or their mom asks for almost absolutely anything then they do it right away (sometimes they don’t even have to ask my partner just does it) like yes family is important and I’m not asking to be the center of attention but I would like some effort. I always have to pick the place we’re going, drive, and most of the time pay for it. I have talked to them about this before but they haven’t done anything to change and it’s honestly gotten a bit worse. This has led me to become extremely jealous (and even borderline hate their family) because of this. They are Amazing people and I love them to death but I just don’t understand why I’m always the leader in my relationship. AITA for feeling this way?