Hey all!
I’m a 29 year old M, recently God has put someone into my life that I haven’t seen in a long time. We both previously worked for the same company a few years ago. She is 26 years old, a few weeks ago I posted about moving states. She dm’d me and told me she lived 45 minutes away from me.
Both of us enjoy watching Formula 1. I had invited her over to watch this weeks race in Miami. we both love race cars and working with engines. She’s an interior designer, but wanting to go back to working on motorcycles.
This afternoon I had just noticed a few things I needed some opinion on. I do have both ADHD and Autism so what’s considered “normal“ social or romantic situations tend to fall through. I like being as close to 100% sure on things if I can be.
The First thing I had noticed was today when we hugged it was a friendly hug (look it up with pictures). And after our 5 hours together when I walked her to her bike we did the bear hug this time (Again look it up).
The second thing that happened today, while we were watching the race the conversation grew into us talking about future plans for watching races together. She’s had asked if I wanted to go out to a bar with her and a friend to watch the next race. I already accepted, but this is a good sign right?
Third thing I noticed and this is more for the women. We watched the last hour of the F1 Movie with Brad Pitt in it. During there kissing scenes I noticed she was rubbing her hand on her forearm a bunch. For me I attributed it towards anxiety, but while looking it up I found it could be her subconscious reaction to wanting the intimacy shes seeing on screen? Again it was only kissing in the movie.
If you made it this far thank you for listening to my Ted talk. I look forward to reading the comments.
Lastly to avoid any confusion or having to update, yes I am romantically interested in her.