She is from Xiamen.
I met a Chinese woman on match in Jan.
We've be steadily dating since then.
She's 57 I am 64.
She's in CA, I'm in Las Vegas.
She's been in the States since Nov. 2025.
She did ask me the filter question upfront: Are you open to marriage?
To which I responded - yes, with the right person.
I've been driving out every other week, sometimes weekly.
In between we Video Chat and text.
We seemed to get along right away despite the language barrier.
Since the 3rd date our dates have been long - all day 10 hrs+.
From the 3rd date onward she brought me food and tea and a couple gifts.
One was soap and chopsticks (5) in the package.
Then VERY expensive medicine from China because I told her my blood sugar was up and down lately.
Then we were having health discussions, lol.
She always seems to be eating on our video calls so we have an inside joke about it.
Last week she said - can you handle a wife who eats all day?
I laughed and then said - asbolutely.
She has to go back to China because she has only a Tourist visa.
I asked how can we keep in touch weChat?
She said yes.
I did tell her the other day - That from the very start I have been exclusive.
I texted it so there would be no miscommunication about that.