u/Away-Membership5880

Hi long time lurker, advice commenter, first time poster here. So after the events of this weekend I have been trying to answer a question on my own and I can't. So why is is mono people date poly people? Is it bc they think they can turn them? Purify them in some way? Or is it like when a straight guy thinks he can turn a lesbian straight? Like I don't get it. If you believe and want a monogamous relationship find someone who isn't into dating others. Stop coming into our lives and trying to change and disrupt who we are. And please for goodness sake stop acting like we are the villains.