So my gf keeps sulking and getting jealous(details later). She doesn't make a fuss about it, but she does make it obvious by telling me and ignoring me for a bit. She does apologize most of the time, but it makes me feel guilty for idk, not doing enough?
So recently, she pointed out that I don't usually try to win her over when she sulks. I realized that she was right and I thought about it, and figured that I only do try to win her over whenever It is my fault. I mean, should I like, apologize and beg or whatever? I'm sick of that shit. I used to do that alot in my past relationships. And I think it's coz of my past that I don't even try when I know I wasn't in the wrong.
Example
Late replies coz my phone didn't notify me or I was simply busy with something.
Jealousy- When I hang with my F friends or whenever I mention a girl.
What ifs
What I do:
I apologize for replying late
I reassure her that I love her and her only
I answer truthfully most of the time coz I can't be funny all the time
If it's still not obvious, my pride is really high. Especially after my past relationships. I get that women are sensitive, but am I really in the wrong? Should I always swallow my pride and tell her everything that she wants to hear? Am I still not ready for a relationship?
I fucking hate feeling this way
I'm 23M and she's 23F. We've known each other for 4yrs now and have only started dating for 3 months. The jealousy thing I understand, we both got cheated on by our ex. Idk, ig I'll talk to her abt it in the morning. I don't think she's playing games with me and I won't be breaking up with her. Anw, if some of you guys are right then I'll break up with her. Thanks for hearing me out and for the advice.
edit: mb for the "i get that women are sensitive" thing. I don't mean that in a bad? way. Like, what I'm saying is that women are more sensitive with emotions n stuff. Am I making it sound worse? Probably, but you guys get what I mean right?🙏 I mean like, men are more sensitive too at night. Like, that's why I'm here rn lol. My emotions are messy rn.