Hi! I need help!
My ex gifted me a ragdoll kitten for Christmas. We have been broken up for over 6 months and he won’t let me take Hershey with me when I move. He says, it’s HIS cat, he purchased him, he signed the bill of sale…
I never seen the bill of sale for Hershey
And the breeder didn’t give Andrew Hersheys records upon adoption.
I cannot leave Hershey, him and I have such an emotional bond. What can I do to take him with me. Please help me 🫶🏻🫶🏻
Im not “submissive, feminine, soft”
He’s the “man of the house”
We split bills 50/50
I do all the cooking, cleaning, take care of pets, shopping, make his lunch, bring him his dinner plate because he just plays video games the moment he gets home/ all day on his days off.
I was working full time but still was expected to tend to womanly duties and sexually please him whenever he wanted. come home to a mess.. never once made me dinner / cleaned.. I asked once for him to take out the trash it was overflowing on the floor.. he was home all day; said I disrespected him…
I get punished if I say “no to sex, talk back, disrespect him” and he said he was “teaching me a lesson”
I got the silent treatment alll the time, blocked on everything until I would “submit”
I no longer was able to sleep in our room in bed. I slept on my couch, he took the plates off my car took my car keys, (I lost my job) will unplug WiFi/tv cords. Wouldn’t give me rides to store to buy food.
I sold everything I could have mine to support myself.
I’m able to stay longer if I sexually please him whenever he wants on demand and can’t say no, I’ve done this several times so I can sleep in a bed or get a ride to the store…
I was approved for unemployment. I bought myself a blow up mattress and plastic dressers. I lock myself in my room when he’s home. I mentally have reached my limit. I’m so stuck and I don’t have help and idk what to do. Since February of this year… I relied on my tax return to buy the car and move… I never received my taxes.. he gave me an eviction notice, may 27th idk what to do.
This is just a snip of current situation.. I hope this reaches an audience to help me.
I wish I didn’t allow you to destroy my mental and physical health.
You helped me at my lowest to condition me that I could trust you. I became codependent financially dependent for it to be taken away, everything I bought for the house, it was “your property”
You printed out an eviction notice for me.
I have No car, no job no money
You made an agreement for me to suck your dick or fuck you, make me swallow whenever you asked, I couldn’t say no. Eventually I said no. I sleep on the couch the only piece of furniture left I own after selling anything I could to have money. You take the WiFi cord, tv cords. No car, no help,
You punish me more and more to “teach me a lesson” when I don’t obey to the “agreement” I’m locked out of the room, I can’t sleep on our bed. If I submit and suck your dick I can sleep in the bed. If we have sex you will take me to the store.. constantly put me down/criticize me, you and your brother and your friends. As if I’m the problem because of my reaction to how you treat me… I reached my limit..
I’ll share more, if anyone will listen.