[NSFW] Is there a SPECIFIC sexual act that makes you say ''People are actually into that?!''
My first ever post, please bear with me! And English isn't my first language.
Okay, I believe I'm pretty much indifferent when it comes to sex. Or well, I would say that if I actually HAD a partner and was comfortable with anything sexual. I'm still young without any experiences, but I can still build some preferences through fantasies or something! I dunno, most poses or acts just sound...okay or meh to me, I don't care. But one particular act just sends me into total repulsed mode.
Blowjobs!!! Now, I don't shame ANYONE that enjoys it. Infact, I'm glad people can find happiness/pleasure in these things (as long as it's consensual, of course), but jeez, I can't explain it properly. Disgust is a pretty strong word but nothing else comes to my mind. It sounds so unhygienic! And humiliating! (I'm sorry BDSM enjoyers)
Yeah, I know people including allos have various preferences and don't need to like every single thing, but I think this is just my asexuality screaming!
I DON'T CARE about other acts, and seeing blowjobs in media actually doesn't make me feel any different. I had an ex that I guess really wanted me to do it. That made me realize I indeed can't see this guy sexually (which confirmed my ace questioning, yay...). So, IRL blowjobs make me think ''I don't understand how people find this hot/sexy/amazing.''
Now, I'm curious if there are people out there that feel similar? Like- you're okay with anything, or you even enjoy most acts, EXCEPT something that just makes you repulsed.
Incase I'll repeat myself, I don't want to shame anyone! No fetish/kink shaming! I don't want to spread any hate to anyone because they have their unique preferences! I'm just here to share my own thoughts and maybe even listen to someone with similar experiences. <3
And excuse the poor writing, this is my first FIRST reddit post so I apologize if it's crappy...
EDIT: I didn't expect such engagement for a first post, thanks! While you guys listed really interesting takes, hell, I even learned new terms...I think I realized why blowjobs look so unappealing to me. I'm used to seeing power dynamics like women are the obeying, submissive ones and men are the dominant ones, forcing the submissive to totally gobble them up like animals. I'm not into degradation at all, so blowjobs automatically look like that to me, which I think is sad. That doesn't mean I realized I feel neutral about BJs tho. Clean yourself or keep piss and shit out of me! So, what I discovered is that I'm mostly disturbed only from stuff that seem degrading to me. And the niche fetishes/kinks ya'll named? I wouldn't say I'm horrified by them. I'm mostly fascinated in a good(?) way, because for me it's exciting to learn new strange things people like to do and are into. I feel content from this post, because now I can pinpoint how I exactly feel! Again, I thank to people that took their time to write here their opinions, explanations and feelings <3.